For all the guys out there that assume all girls are the same your wrong. Now I'm speaking for the girls out there that don't cheat and are faithful and loyal. If you think your girl is doing something guys, ask her don't accuse her. Ask to go through her phone and if she asks funny you know somethings up, if she doesn't she doesn't then she obviously has nothing to hide. But if you accuse her of something and she says go through her phone and you say no then you have no reason to be accusing her of anything if she is willingly going to give you her phone without you asking. Now that I got that out of the way time to cover something else. Here is a tip guys; when you're texting your girlfriend and she said its fine or whatever or anything along those lines she's more than likely mad or upset, so don't just continue on with whatever it was y'all were talking about ask her what's wrong or something like that. If she is sick or hurting don't forget to ask her what's wrong. If she says she doesn't want to talk find out why. If she pushes you away grab her and don't let go. If she tries to hit you grab her hand and hold it and pull her close to you. If she yells at you kiss her. If she says she hates you tell her you love her. If she doesn't talk to you grab her and don't let her go until she speaks. Also, be more understanding when its that time of the month or your gonna get chewed out. 

Now ladies all guys are not the same. Don't judge every guy off of one bad relationship. Now I am definitely  not a guy by any means but I have hung out with enough guys to know somethings. Now there are several types of guys just like there are several types of girls. Some guys like being all up on you and making everyone know your theirs but some guys will be kind of stand offish and not really want y'all's business out there. You have got to except him for who he is. Don't try to make him into someone he's not. All guys will have their flaws, because nobody's is perfect. If you make him feel like he can't be himself, it is not a healthy relationship and he is not gonna stay with you, so except him. Also, I know we all do this... ladies when it is that time of the month try not to take it out on him, it is not his fault, and he doesn't understand. Although they need to  be more understanding that its hard on us they didn't make it happen. 

 

                                                                                                                  ~L.J.